SCALP:
A must-massage zone
Whether it’s a gentle brushing
across the scalp, some light scratching
with nails, or hair-tugging, paying the
scalp special attention according to
your or your partner’s pressure
preferences can really heat
things up.
Try this:
EARS:
Lobes of love
Gently kiss, nibble, lick, or
even blow into your partner’s ear to
get the tingles flowing. You can
also massage their ears and
lobes to trigger deep
relaxation.
Try this:
Inner arm and armpit:
A relaxation station
Run your fingers, a toy
(like a feather), or even your
tongue up and down the
inner arm or armpit.
Try this:
Navel and lower stomach:
Not to be underestimated
Play around with different
textures and temperatures (like feathers
or ice cubes), tracing or tickling them
across your belly button and lower
belly area. Or you could have your
partner use their mouth to tease
your belly button, kissing or
licking around it.
Try this:
Small of the back,
back in general:
Body orgasm warning
Caressing and rubbing
according to your or your partner’s
pressure preference is one way to
get started. This is also a good area
for using ice cubes, a vibrator, or
(for the brave) a pinwheel.
Try this:
Inner thighs:
No better place to graze
On yourself, try different
strokes of caressing or grazing.
On a partner, do the same, but you
can add kisses. Try gently running
the backs of your fingers up
your partner’s inner thighs as
you sit in front of them.
Try this:
Palms of the hands
and Fingertips:
Hand-holding is so
hot right now
Take your partner’s hands
palm up in each of yours and rub their
palms with a firm, circular massage
using your thumbs. Bring their palm
to your lips or cheek afterward.
For a boost of intimacy, add
some strong sexy
eye contact.
Try this:
Inner Wrists:
Grab ’em or graze ’em
Kiss or lick the inner
wrists gently or grab ’em
firmly and pin them to a bed
(preferences, people!).
Try this:
Behind the knee:
A dopamine hack
Use soft touch with
your hands for yourself or your
partner, adding some mouth work
(like softly kissing or licking) for
your partner too.
Bottoms of feet or toes:
Not just for fetish folks
Go for a good old-fashioned
foot massage. For those who truly
fancy feet, “footjobs” — which are
exactly what they sound like —
are very hot right
now.
Try this:
the not so obvious erogenous zones
Try this: