Pubic mound:
Mounds of moans
This is a good area for massage
with your hands, your tongue, or a
vibrator, according to your
partner’s preferences.
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The clitoris:
A ticket to climax maximus
Fingers and vibrators can
do wonderful things here. Experiment
with pressure and speed preferences
for yourself or your partner (it’s usually
best to start slowly and gently).
Communication is KEY
here, people!
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The vagina:
The G-spot, the A-spot, and beyond
Curved fingers or toys are
thought to be best for reaching
these spots. Using a “come hither”
gesture with your finger may just
activate TF out of them (you’re
welcome), but you might need
a toy to reach and stimulate the
A-spot since it’s a bit
deeper.
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Cervix:
Nerve endings up for grabs *literally*
The cervix is pretty deep
— in fact, it’s as deep as you can get
with a penis or toy in the female
anatomy — so stimulating it might take
a little maneuvering. Doggy-style sex
and longer internal sex toys are the
best way to reach it. And once
you do, you’ll know it.
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Frenulum:
A penis owner’s BFF
This area is a good
opportunity to get creative with
yourself or your partner. Anything
goes — hands, mouth, toys, you
name it. To activate the frenulum,
work your lubed-up hand up and
down the shaft, allowing your thumb
to play with this particular piece
of skin. Flicking it during oral
sex can especially kick
things off.
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The scrotum and testicles:
A stimulating sack
The testicles are a great
place to have massaged. Go for gentle
touching and mouth work. If you or
your partner like it a little rough, try
pulling on them with a little more
pressure (but still gently!).
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The prostate:
The other G-spot
Try a prostate massager
like this one from Lovense. If you’d
rather go manual, gently insert a finger
a couple of inches into the rectum, putting
some pressure on the front wall. When
your partner says it’s feeling good, keep
it up and see if you can multitask on
their penis (stroking, etc.).
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Foreskin:
Extra skin, extra sensations
Blow into the foreskin
like a balloon. Doing this can
make it pop out, stimulating
the head of the penis.
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Head of the penis:
A glans-on experience
The glans can be stimulated
via touch or toys. A lot of people
enjoy Fleshlights for masturbatory
play. Partners can also use their lips
and tongue to gently rub it and
realllly make your toes curl.
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The obvi ones: Genital-specific erogenous zones